Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Ingredients of Healthy Relationship

1. Honesty
Love is honest, brutally honest. A relationship built on the foundation of honesty has an indestructible framework of trust.
Honesty and trust breed respect. Respecting your partner is critical. Without respect, love can't last. Be honest, no matter what. If you are honest and the relationship ends, it is meant to end. If a relationship is meant, nothing you say (if you are speaking truthfully) will cause it to cease. Have faith in the truth.

2. Compromise
A relationship is only as happy as the least happiest person in it, and the relationship is happiest in the middle of the two people in it. Mature participants of a relationship know sometimes one person has to travel a little farther to the center than the other. They are willing to make the trek, because they trust that the other will do the same when it is their turn.
When compromise is necessary ask yourself, "What matters more to me, my want to get my way or my need for peace? What do I need to do to create harmony right now?"
When you think and act in favor of the well being of your relationship, you will always air in favor of compromise; even if that means you travel a little farther than your partner because you know, if your partner is miserable, you will be, too, and so will your relationship.

3. Patience
No one belongs to you. You can't control anyone either. Despite how hard you try to persuade or manipulate another to respond and react in the way you want, they won't and they don't. Everyone thinks, feels and acts in their own way, on their own time.
If you try to rush someone's process or push them to do something they don't want to do, they will feel pressured. When a person feels pressured, they feel unsafe, unloved and unable to give love. They will no longer be themselves, and when someone is not themselves, they are not honest. Without honesty, love dies, as will the relationship.
The most important thing you can do for the person you love is give them space. When a person has space, they feel free -- free to feel and think, do what they love and be who they are in their own way, on their own time and they will want to share themselves with you. Remember, love is not in a rush, it has all the time in the world.

4. Sex
I use the word "sex" to describe the seventh ingredient, but it's more than just intercourse. It's affection, touch, attention, warmth and kindness. The ingredient of sex is comprised of reciprocity (an equality of service to one another) and the desire to show your partner he or she is special and wanted by you. When a person feels wanted, they feel safe, loved and free (there's that freedom part again).
Sex and all its components disappear because the individuals in the relationship stop feeling special, wanted and acknowledged by the other. The feelings of love develop effortlessly, but if you want to keep love alive, you have to maintain it -- you must work at it. Relationships demand effort by both people, equally at the same time.
Daily effort applied to a relationship by its partners will lead to a lifetime of love. It can be a simple effort -- a gentle touch, a sweet kiss, an arm wrapped around her belly as she washes dishes, or sitting by his side as he reads a book or watches his favorite show. All of these actions are a reminder to your partner -- I see you, I acknowledge you, I choose you, I'm trying because I love you and I want to keep loving you.
I've been alive for 34.5 years, and I have concluded that love is undefinable. Although I do know one thing I am absolutely sure of, and that is love is a choice.
Loving another person is a moment-by-moment choice. "I choose to love this person with everything I have right now." If you are in a relationship, I hope you commit to loving your partner with an honest heart, a fully present mind, transparency in feeling and thought, a willingness to compromise (because you understand who they are and what they need to feel loved).
I hope you choose to be patient with their process and you always find the time to express your love with a hug and a kiss, as if this moment is the last time you will ever hold them in your arms. Oh, one last thing, never forget to say I love you -- we can never say it too much.

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

4 Scariest Futuristic Architecture Projects

Futurist architecture : characterized by anti-historicism, strong chromaticism, long dynamic lines, suggesting speed, motion, urgency and lyricism: it was part of the Futurism, an artistic movement founded by the poet Filippo Tommaso Marinetti, who produced its first manifesto, the Manifesto of Futurism in 1909.

1). The Tokyo Mega-Pyramid

One of the hallmarks of awesome futuristic architecture, of course, is the arcology — the idea of a megastructure that can hold a whole city's population in one self-sufficient building. It's only when you combine that idea with the passion for light-weight building materials that things get scary.

2) "The Cloud"

 is a design for a resort city in Dubai, which would "float" 300 meters above the ground, on slanting see-through legs that are meant to look like rain. It's designed by Nadim Karam of Lebanese architect Atelier Hapsitus

3) The New Orleans Arcology Habitat (NOAH)
Here's another proposed future floating arcology, this time on the banks of the Mississippi. This structure would house 40,000 people and utilize a multi-cavity "hull" as the foundation for the superstructure
 
4) The Water-Scraper
Designed by Malaysian architect Sarly Adre bin Sarkum, this tower would be almost as tall as the Empire State Building — but only the top two stories would be above the water level. The building would generate its own power using wave-power, solar energy and wind power, and has its own farms, including aquaculture and hydroponics farms. And it's kept upright "using a system of ballasts aided by a set of squid-like tentacles that generate kinetic energy."

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Getting Tanked


A military tank is without a doubt the ultimate of vehicles. So it was only a matter of time before one would make an appearance in an F&F film. Spoiler alert, it finally does so in the sixth film. And as one might imagine, the tank goes to town pulverizing vehicles on a public highway. Too bad the tank wasn't rigged with nitrous.

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Women's Health

A woman /ˈwʊmən/, pl: women /ˈwɪmɨn/ is a female human. The term woman is usually reserved for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent. However, the term woman is also sometimes used to identify a female human, regardless of age, as in phrases such as "Women's rights". Women are typically capable of giving birth from puberty onwards, though older women who have gone through menopause and some intersex women cannot. Throughout history women have assumed various social roles in occupation. In some cultures, a majority of women have adopted specific appearances, such as wearing long hair.[1]


Source http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Woman